Dr. Mike Gropper

The writer is a marital, child and adult cognitive-behavioral psychotherapist with offices in Jerusalem and Ra’anana and global online accessibility. drmikegropper@gmail.com; www.facebook.com/drmikegropper.

 A child is seen using a smartphone.

Disconnect to reconnect: Helping kids find balance between screens and real life

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The virtual world’s impact: Are we at risk of losing the human connection?

  EMPTY COFFINS line a street  near the Prime Minister’s Office,  in protest of the ceasefire deal,  Jan. 16 in Jerusalem.

The hostage deal: Understanding Israel’s conflicting emotions - opinion


Hanukkah and light: The psychological benefits of positive thinking

Lighting the Hanukkah candles becomes an act of defiance against despair, a symbol of unwavering faith, and a reminder that even in the darkest times, the Jewish people can glow brightly.

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Simchat Torah: Using joy to overcome pain

Psychological theory offers some important understanding of how we can approach this year’s Simchat Torah.

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Therapist explains how to use humor to fight Iran's psychological warfare

In challenging times, humor helps to sustain the psychological immune system by altering how we feel, think, and behave.

 RAIN, SUN – laughter is always great medicine.

Connecting with friends and staying happy, despite the challenges

As per the most recent UN happiness survey, Israelis are the fourth-happiest people out of 130 nations.

Resilience and a sense of community contribute to our happiness.

Psychologist explains why laughing, comedy helps during wartime

One way we can help ourselves deal with the stress of war is to laugh. Laughter can calm our worries and heal our emotional wounds.

 HORSING AROUND and letting loose with a camel in Jerusalem’s Old City.

Coping one day at a time: Israeli perspectives on war and emotional resilience - opinion

Don’t underestimate how the situation has affected almost everyone in Israel.

 PRACTICE GRATITUDE for the things going well in your life.

Co-dependency: Why can't I stop putting others before myself?

Why do we love people who hurt us? People who cannot say "no" are suffering from co-dependency.

 SHIFT TO self-orientation.

Six ways to remain emotionally grounded in wartime

The six techniques detailed below help us to connect with ourselves and with others.

 THERAPEUTIC ANCIENT art: Doing yoga on stand-up paddle boards during International Day of Yoga celebrations, in Lake Kinneret last June.

Israel-Hamas War: The psychological benefits of keeping a routine

Almost everyone’s routine has been disrupted since the onset of the war. Mental health experts underscore how important routine is for one’s emotional health.

 POUR YOURSELF a cup of coffee (or tea) and get the week going.

Israel-Hamas War: Managing emotional uncertainty during the war

We have many reasons to feel uncertain during the Israel-Hamas war. Here are some tips to help manage the uncertainty.

 What will the day after look like when we defeat Hamas? Tips to manage uncertainty.