Psychic readings are very personal and individual experiences, depending on unique energies between a psychic and his or her client. That is because the style of every psychic is independent, so effectively, it's about the connection between the psychic and the client. This really sets the tone for the reading. Finding someone whose energy really resonates with yours is important for the best results.

Whether you are a practicing psychic or someone seriously considering booking a reading, there are certain principles that should be adhered to in order to have a meaningful and ethical experience. These make sure that not only is the reading insightful, but the energies of both the psychic and client are respected and empowered post-reading.

Here are seven golden rules for psychic readings to give insight and depth for both readers and seekers alike.

  1. Don't Jump to Conclusions
Among the first lessons of every psychic is to deliver the information without filtering it through preconceptions. Making assumptions may result in overlooking the very important details or discarding an intuitive insight.

Making assumptions blocks you from seeing what is right before you. You have to develop your gifts and learn to be cognizant of what you are seeing in the spirit realm without making assumptions.

Example: Early in my career, I gave a reading to a reserved woman in her 80s. I picked up on the energy of three lovers in her life but hesitated, thinking it couldn’t possibly be true. Summoning my courage, I shared my impression, only for her to casually confirm, “That’s right, dear.” This taught me never to let appearances or assumptions cloud my intuition.

For Readers:

  • Take time to review the biases and find out the areas where you may jump to conclusions.
  • Remember that intuition often runs totally opposite of logical and cultural expectations.
For Seekers:
  • Keep your mind open while reading because sometimes the biggest insight comes at the most unexpected place.
  1. Don't Second Guess Yourself
When you get intuitive hits, it can be easy to think it through and doubt what is coming in. This, however, can dilute the clarity and the impact of the message. Make sure you get a clear channel, and do not say something if you are not hearing it. The more you are on with information, the better you will be.

Example: Imagine picking up on an impression that someone might have an unusual hobby, like trapeze artistry. Saying, “This may sound strange, but are you a trapeze artist?” might elicit shockingly accurate confirmation. Overthinking such information could lead to self-doubt and hesitation, robbing the client of a powerful moment.

For Readers:

  • Trust your instincts. Say what comes to you without worrying if it sounds “odd.”
  • Practice the delivery of messages the moment they come, and let intuition flow free.
For Seekers:
  • Please be patient with your psychic. It may sound fragmented, but it does mostly come together like the pieces of a puzzle.
  1. Don't Decide Their Destiny
A psychic's role is to give insight and guidance, not to tell people what to do or to control their life path. It was an easy way to fall into the trap of dependency for the clients and undermine the personal power of a person. Use intuition to guide you and not simply listen to what is said or apply your judgment.

For readers:

  • Frame your insight as possibilities or opportunities, not as directions or orders.
  • Empower the clients to seek their own solutions and make relevant decisions.
For Seekers:
  • Remember that you have free will. Take the readings as a tool of reflection, not as set directions.
  1. Avoid Moral Judgments
Every person has a different sense of right and wrong, sculpted by what they've experienced and believe in. As a psychic, it is important not to judge anyone during a reading if their choices are highly different from yours. You are not there to judge anyone, but you are there to guide them and to help them with their life.

For Readers:

  • Look at the situation from the standpoint of the soul, where the essence is growth and understanding.
  • Be compassionate and open-minded when given challenging insights.
For Seekers:
  • Choose readers who provide safety, a non-judgmental space to lay out, and assistance in free-voiced exploration of problems.
  1. No Negative and Fear-Based Prophecies
Delivering messages with tact and positivity is essential. Fear-based statements like “Something bad is going to happen” or “You can’t trust someone around you” can leave clients feeling anxious and disempowered. As a psychic, you need to make sure that if you are in a bad situation with a reading, you use your intuition to decide what is going on and if the reading is safe for the client.

For Readers:

  • When you intuit possible problems, give more weight to constructive suggestions rather than dire forecasts.
  • Reframe any difficulties as chances to grow or learn something.
For Seekers:
  • Look for a reader who will emphasize solutions and/or self-empowerment rather than fear or fatalism.
  1. Don’t Be Philosophical
Life seldom goes according to plan, and though sometimes things might seem ordained, much can be achieved with a turn in will. Never leave any situation beyond rectification. Keep in mind that you are not his or her psychiatrist, nor are you there to provide a medical cure; you are there to be empathetic to what they need.

For Readers:

  • Assert free will and self-determination in the face of adversity.
  • Help your clients view themselves as active participants in their destiny who have the power to alter and change.
For Seekers:
  • You are the alchemist in your life. Take any insights from your reading and use them for inspiration toward positive action.
  1. Empower Your Clients
The ultimate goal of any psychic reading should be empowerment. A great reading leaves the client uplifted, confident, and better prepared to meet life's challenges.

For Readers:

  • Empower clients to their own inner strength and resilience.
  • Explain options or choices clearly if necessary, but ultimately let them decide.
For Seekers:
  • Consider your revelations from your reading. Take the insights, continue to get involved, and enable yourself.
  1. Establish Boundaries
It's also set in place to maintain professionalism and ethics in reader-seeker interactions. Some clients might want to over-depend on psychic guidance or repeatedly get readings on one subject.

For Readers:

  • Originating guidelines on how regularly one reads for the same client or on the same subject.
  • State the guidelines at the outset to avoid misunderstanding.
For Seekers:
  • Respect your reader’s boundaries and avoid becoming overly dependent. Readings should complement, not replace, your own decision-making process.
  1. Continue Developing Your Skills
A good psychic is always learning and growing. Take time to deepen your understanding of your abilities, explore new tools, and refine your techniques.

For Readers:

  • Consider studying advanced divination methods, such as astrology, numerology, or advanced tarot spreads.
  • Attend workshops and online courses to network with other professionals and get updated about newer aspects.
For Seekers:
  • Select a psychic who is growing and learning in their own way. This commitment will definitely raise the quality of the reading.
  1. Focus on Creating a Safe Space
A successful reading requires building trust and comfort in space. Clients need to feel secure sharing their concerns and working through their feelings.

For Readers:

  • Use grounding techniques, soothing decor, or gentle music to create a welcoming environment.
  • Practice active listening and empathy to help clients feel understood and supported.
For Seekers:
  • Choose a reader who prioritizes your emotional well-being and creates a safe, nonjudgmental space for exploration.
Final Thoughts

A psychic reading is a very personal experience, either giving one or seeking one. Readers will be assured that the guidance is ethical and empowering if the following golden rules are followed while the seekers approach the reading openly and confidently.

At their best, psychic readings bridge the divide between the physical and spiritual, giving clarity, comfort, and inspiration. Be a seasoned psychic or inquire about the world of readings, and let it be remembered that the magic in connection, trust, and mutual respect is real.

This article was written in cooperation with Mike Schuelke