“Dialogue” is the word that I associate with judge Henry Shakenovsky of Ramat Hasharon, who left this troubled world a poorer place devoid of his wise counsel on August 8 at age 95. “Resolution is best achieved by listening and understanding the other side,” he publicly expressed at a meeting over two decades ago when I first got to know him. It’s a credence that he always adhered to and followed through by example. He impacted many to follow this path, myself included.

Apexed with a wad of white hair, Henry would, like a lighthouse, illuminate any place by his presence. But it was much more his personality and erudition than his appearance that would hold the floor. Armed with a vocabulary that he masterfully marshaled to be so powerfully persuasive, it was little wonder that he excelled as a barrister/advocate at the South African Bar and in later years, even following his aliyah, as an acting judge in South Africa’s Constitutional Court. Often when I was trying to make arrangements with him, he would say, “Apologies, I will be in South Africa presiding in a case.” 

I would welcome him on his return, listening to him relate cases with his off-the-cuff humor that would have me in stitches of laughter as he comically embellished in his inimitable way the facts of the case and the issues of law in both English and Afrikaans, particularly as it related to witness testimony. Having grown up in the old Orange Free State province of South Africa, Henry spoke a suiwer (pure) Afrikaans with its own nuances and humor, and he frequently teased me over my kombuis Kaapse taal (kitchen Cape dialect). Our love of the law and language was our bridge, but there was so much more.

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